In his book, Rich Habits -- The Daily Success Habits of Wealthy Individuals, Tom Corley outlines several habits that distinguish the wealthy from the nonwealthy.
It
got me to think, How many people operate on autopilot and don’t stop to
monitor their everyday patterns? Below I've summarized 19 of his habits
for success (nine culled from his book and the next 10 from his recent
article in Success) plus two of my own. If you're not actively engaged in these 21 things, you are, in effect, leaving money on the table.
1. Setting good daily habits.
Good habits are the foundation
of wealth building. The difference between successful and unsuccessful
people lies in their daily habits. Simply put, successful people have
many good habits and few bad ones. If you understand that your bad
habits may be preventing you from becoming wealthy, that realization
will be the first step in your improving your circumstances.
In
his book, Corley invites you to take out a sheet of paper and list your
bad habits in one column and then invert each one to place under a new
column for good habits. It should look like this:
Bad Habit/Good Habit
I watch too much TV. I limit myself to one hour of TV per day.
I don’t remember names. I write down names and remember them.
Then for 30 days, follow the guidance of your new good habits list. You’ll be amazed at how much you can accomplish.
2. Regularly creating goals.
Successful people are goal driven. They create goals all the time. They plan their day the night before with to-do lists.
People
who are headed for success think for the long term. They have daily,
weekly, monthly and yearly goals. But what’s a goal without a plan to
reach them? So not only do successful people have goals, they also come
up with ways to achieve them and hold themselves accountable.
3. Engaging in self-improvement daily.
Successful
people are always looking for ways to improve themselves. They read
every day and are students of their profession. They don’t spend their
time on activities that don't bring them closer to their goals.
I recently attended an event hosted by author Brendon Burchard,
who said he consistently blocks out time to create. Successful people
like Burchard know that time is too valuable a commodity to waste. They
spend their time on the things that will move the needle for them in
their business: Being committed to self-improvement means you engage in
activities every day that will stretch you.
Seek ways to expand
your knowledge. This won’t always be easy, but people grow from things
that pose a challenge. Once your knowledge grows, opportunities appear.
4. Regularly taking care of personal health.
Each
and every day successful people make an effort to eat right and
exercise. Eating right is of utmost importance. Exercising daily can
become a regular habit, just like taking a bath. People who exercise
routinely have more energy to get things done. How are you doing in this
area?
5. Often making time for relationship building.
People who
are successful are other-people focused. They take time out of their day
to strengthen the bonds of friendship and form long-lasting
relationships with others. Networking is something they do all the time.
They reach out to their contacts and look for ways to help them with no
expectation of in return.
The most beautiful sound on Earth, I
once heard someone say, is your name. So make it a goal to learn the
names of every contact you meet. Aren’t you impressed when someone
remembers your name? I know I am. So stand out as different and start
remembering names.
6. Doing things in moderation.
You
live in a balanced way if you do activities in moderation. This means
having a balanced approach to work, eating, exercise, consuming alcohol,
watching television, surfing the Internet and so forth. As a result,
people will enjoy your company. If people like being around you, then
you will be more apt to collaborate or find the new business partner
that you need to take your business to the next level.
7. Getting things done.
Don’t
put off to tomorrow what you can do today: Accomplish things. All
people have fears, but successful people push past them. They don't
procrastinate. They get the important things done, no matter the cost.
In Rich Habits,
Corley explains that when the thought of putting off something enters
the mind, immediately shed notion by saying, “Do it now.” He says repeat
these words 100 times if necessary. Just don’t stop till the task
is done.
8. Keeping a positive outlook.
Consider the most
successful person you know. Is that person positive or negative? Most
likely this individual is positive, enthusiastic, energetic and happy.
This person chooses to see the good in others and in himself or herself.
To this person, problems are just opportunities waiting to be
uncovered.
Every day people are bombarded by news of bad deeds and
doings. Successful people minimize their exposure to this type of
thing and instead opt to fill their minds with positive ideas from books
and magazines.
9. Regularly saving money.
According to
Corley, successful individuals put away about 10 percent to 20 percent
of their gross earnings in a savings, investment or retirement plan. Not
everyone can afford to do so, but what percent are you putting away?
10. Rejecting self-limiting thoughts.
Successful
people command their thoughts and emotions. As soon as bad thoughts
intrude, they cast out anything that challenges their ability to succeed
at the task at hand. They do not dwell on negative notions. Their
self-talk is positive and not overly critical. They replace bad thoughts
with good ones.
Because successful people engage in
self-improvement daily and are constantly involved in positive things,
they don’t allow themselves time to indulge in negative emotions.
11. Living within means.
Wealthy
people avoid overspending. Among many of those struggling financially,
some are living above their means. They spend more than they earn, live
from paycheck to paycheck and are drowning in credit-card debt. If this
is you, resolve today to turn things around for you and your family.
12. Reading daily.
Many
successful people read 30 minutes or more every day. Reading can
increase your knowledge and know-how. When you read, often you are
seeking to improve yourself. This automatically sets you apart from your
counterparts. You will stand out from the competition.
13. Limiting TV watching.
Did
you know that many successful people limit the amount their TV time to
one hour or less a day? How much time do you lose in front of the
television that you could be spending doing something more productive?
14. Doing more than what’s required.
Successful
people regularly go above and beyond the call of duty at work. Even if
something is not in their job description, they will volunteer to do it.
Wealthy people make themselves invaluable. As an entrepreneur, you may
not have a boss. But in what ways do you go above and beyond for your
clients? How do you wow them?
15. Talking less and listening more.
When
you listen, you learn. And as the adage goes, that’s why people have
two ears and one mouth. When you take the time to really pay attention
to what another person is saying, it can truly help not only you but
your bottom line as well. When you listen, you are in a better position
to help others.
16. Not giving up.
Don't give up when the
going gets tough. Successful people hang in there. They pivot. They try
something new. They persist. They may have to change their direction,
but they keep moving forward.
17. Spending time with like-minded ones.
There's
a saying that goes, “Show me who your friends are and I’ll show you who
you are.” I believe that. People are only as successful as those
they choose to surround themselves with. Good associations can help you
more quickly achieve your goals.
18. Finding a mentor.
Many
people who have had a mentor have attributed their success to that
person. Mentors can help you achieve your goals faster and keep you
accountable. They can share valuable experience that can cut your
learning time in half.
19. Knowing your why.
When you know
why you're doing something, you will get what you what quicker than if
you don’t. Having a purpose is essential to being successful in business
and in life. Why do you want to be successful? Why do you really want
to be wealthy?
20. Not giving fear the upper hand.
Everyone
has fears. Successful people don’t allow their fears to limit or define
them. Fear inevitably keeps you in the same position and stunts your
growth. Recognize your fears and seek ways to overcome them. Interview
someone you admire and ask that person how he or she overcame a fear or
pick up an autobiography and take notes.
21. Upgrading skills.
If
you want to get ahead, there’s only one way to do it: Become better at
something than you are today. What's the one thing you can focus on for
the next 30 days that will catapult you to rock-star status in your
industry? Focus your attention on that. I heard John Lee Dumas from Entrepreneur on Fire define "FOCUS" like this: Follow one course until success. Will you?
(Source: entrepreneur)